Also most of us, especially the men folk, automatically assume that the only reason a sexy woman like her would want to be with someone like him, is because he’s rich, or 'well hung' (size matters if you let it matter) has a fancy sports car or possesses some other attribute, that he’s using to attract the type of hot woman he’s with.
Wrong!
Wrong!
Wrong!
Okay, so let's take a deep breath and talk about this.Let's decode what exactly is wrong with the conventionally attractive men, and what is so right about these..well, conventionally un-attractive men.
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| So, what's the secret? |
Trust me when I say this, good looking women have the hardest time meeting
All that " Haww! You're so pretty, you can get anybody you want to" doesn't hold true in most cases.
Look around you. You'll be amazed at how many women end up settling for sub-par relationships. You'll be baffled at how many great looking women are on dating websites (and how they still remain unsuccessful).
I myself am perplexed, on how so many single hot people out there, are not dating when they want to/who they want to. Sure, there are a billion factors that play into it, but the fact remains, that thousands of pretty girls are staying home tonight, wondering what’s wrong with them…only because all the blokes they meet, are too afraid to ask them out!
Why the f*ck?
Well, sad but true...most men are intimidated by looks!
They think because she’s pretty -
Well, sad but true...most men are intimidated by looks!
They think because she’s pretty -
A. She must be high maintenance
B. Hard to
get
C. Already dating
D. Snobby.
E. Worst case scenario- All of the above
E. Worst case scenario- All of the above
And the few hot studs that do approach her, either rely so heavily on their good looks alone, that they forget to make the date exciting, or are 'players', who like to play mind games
just to get into her p*nts , or claim her as a trophy!!
Now...
Now...
Enter the Average Joe.
The other category, 'aka' the Average Joe, know this and play it to their advantage pretty smooth. They know, that in most cases, these women are single, fed up of head games and craving for a real man to approach them and desire them for who they are and not solely for their bodies.
Now because she's so clearly "better than he deserves", the average joe will go to extremes to keep her happy, since he likely can't replace her with anyone of similar desirability.
The other category, 'aka' the Average Joe, know this and play it to their advantage pretty smooth. They know, that in most cases, these women are single, fed up of head games and craving for a real man to approach them and desire them for who they are and not solely for their bodies.
Now because she's so clearly "better than he deserves", the average joe will go to extremes to keep her happy, since he likely can't replace her with anyone of similar desirability.
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So, how does it ultimately work out to be? |
Well well well, there's a commonly-held belief that women are infinitely less shallow than the male counterparts. They might fantasize about a tall, dark stranger whisking them off for a night of passion, but when it comes to looking for a partner, they value wit, kindness and success just as much as good looks or at times over good looks.
Most women want a man
with a good head on their shoulders, someone who’s a good listener
(that’s very important) and who is a true friend. He’s got to
be funny, understanding, mature and respectful.The great sex doesn't hurt either (okay, so that’s uber important) but in a nutshell, what Good lovers are hard to find. So if he can make sensual love to her body and mind at the same time, she'll have him signed for life!
Or will she?
Ahem!
Picture this:
The pretty girl never gets approached.
She notices she’s being ignored by a hottie and thinks there’s something wrong with her. She’s clueless and distraught, but she tries to go on her merry way.
A few minutes later, a really beastly, ugly-critter looking guy spots the gorgeous girl and he thinks to himself, “This girl is HOT! I’m going to take my chances, another rejection isn’t going to hurt, besides, I feel today is my lucky day!”
Ugly guy approaches gorgeous girl.
Ugly guy approaches gorgeous girl.
Gorgeous girl is confused as she thinks to herself, “No one really takes the time to get to know me, what the hell, he may be the one, I’ll give it a shot!” - (An excerpt from menconfess.com)
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Get the drift?
Get the drift?
Man up guys!
P.S: Assumptions are the mother of all screw-ups! Never assume anything with women. Talk the talk and walk the walk. Observe a woman, studying her like an experiment. But never assume.
Happy Hunting! ;)
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